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Gloria Steinem

b. 1934 Tier II

Her mother's breakdown taught her what unclaimed lives cost women

Portrait of Gloria Steinem
Gage Skidmore from Peoria, AZ, United States of America — 2016 — CC BY-SA 2.0 via Wikimedia Commons

Steinem's mother, Ruth, had been a promising newspaper reporter before a breakdown at 34 left her an invalid prone to delusions, unable to hold a job or, most days, get out of bed. Her father Leo dealt in antiques and ran a summer resort in Michigan, gone for long stretches chasing the next sale, and when he and Ruth separated in 1944, ten-year-old Gloria became the one managing the house and her mother's illness in a rat-infested rental in Toledo. Smith College, magna cum laude in 1956, got her out. A Chester Bowles fellowship then sent her to India for nearly two years, where she walked with Gandhian land-reform organizers into villages still recovering from famine and partition violence, and came home changed by watching people organize themselves.

Back in New York she wrote for magazines that mostly wanted her opinions on men, until a 1963 assignment sent her undercover and a 1969 abortion-rights rally converted her into an organizer instead of an observer. What she built after that, Ms. magazine, the National Women's Political Caucus, the public argument that the personal is political, is BriefHistory's territory. This page is about the 50-odd years of private life she mostly kept separate from the movement she came to symbolize.

For most of her adult life Steinem said publicly that she did not want to marry, a position that made her useful to critics who called feminism anti-family and useful to her own image as a woman who needed no one. In 1958, fresh out of college, she had also taken direction from the CIA, running its front group the Independent Research Service to keep left-leaning youth delegations at world festivals from turning communist, a fact she disclosed herself in 1967 and has defended since as anti-communist idealism rather than betrayal, though critics have never fully accepted the explanation. She had a legal abortion in London in 1957, illegal in the United States at the time, and did not speak publicly about it for decades afterward.

She married for the first time in 2000, at 66, to David Bale, the actor Christian Bale's father, in a ceremony she had spent a career declining to have, and was widowed three years later when he died of brain lymphoma. Younger feminists have argued with her publicly over trans rights, sex work and the movement's blind spots on race, disputes she has generally met by restating rather than retreating from her positions. In her nineties she still lectures and organizes, asked constantly, by supporters and critics alike, to speak for a movement no single person was ever going to be able to represent by herself.

Lifespan

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Gloria Steinem's life against the full span of the corpus — the fading end marks a life still in progress.

Notable works

  • A Bunny's Tale article
    Her undercover Playboy Club exposé for Show magazine
    1963
  • National Women's Political Caucus company
    Co-founded with Shirley Chisholm and Betty Friedan, among others
    1971
  • Ms. magazine company
    Co-founded and edited for 15 years
    1972
  • Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebellions book
    Her first essay collection
    1983
  • My Life on the Road book
    A memoir dedicated to the doctor who performed her 1957 abortion
    2015

Life in brief

with age at each point
  • 1944 aged ~10 Her parents separate, and at ten she takes over running the household
  • 1956 aged ~22 Graduates Smith College magna cum laude
  • 1957 aged ~23 Wins a Chester Bowles fellowship and travels to India
  • 1958 aged ~24 Begins directing the CIA-funded Independent Research Service
  • 1963 aged ~29 Goes undercover as a Playboy Bunny for Show magazine
  • 1972 aged ~38 Co-founds Ms. magazine
  • 1986 aged ~52 Is diagnosed with breast cancer
  • September 3, 2000 aged 66 Marries David Bale for the first time, at 66
  • December 30, 2003 aged 69 David Bale dies of brain lymphoma

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